When settling in marriage leads to contempt

Sometimes giving ultimatums aint the best thing to do.

This 42-year-old man was given an ultimatum to marry her wife (then girlfriend) or she would leave. He figured, why not. I mean he had never been married before so this seemed the best thing to do after weighing his options:His career was... full story

30-day sex fast

Want to have better sex? Try a 30-day fast.

According to Sex therapist Ian Kerner, more satisfaction in the bedroom may sometimes entail stepping outside of it. This is in his new book ‘Sex Detox’. And the remedy he suggests to help rejuvenate your relationship is a 30-day sex fast.

The... full story

Relationship deal-breakers

The new trend it town that seems to have hit most of my male friends is, whenever one of them meets a woman and shows some form of interest in her, she always does something to push him away. And the deal-breaker seems to be kind of universal - DMF as I like to call it (translation: Do Me... full story

Sex in the Conservative city

The conservative woman is fighting battles on two fronts: The Big Mama’s girl and the modern expectations of who she should be.

The big thing for most girls has been Sex and the City … the premiere of the movie that is. Me and my girls have had many debates ignited after watching the movie.... full story

When he loses his job, which spouse gets hit hardest?

Nothing can be more destabilizing for a marriage like a husband losing his job

Handling a spouse’s job loss is something I myself must admit that I really wouldn’t know how to hack the situation. I have seen women calling their husbands’ names in front of the kids, calling them good for... full story

I am leaving if you don’t commit

Most people have been dating for longer that they can remember. Sometimes people reach that point where the relationship is like stagnant – not moving forward or backwards.

Then there reaches a time when one person has to move on – say another job in a different state or something... full story

So to forgive is divine. Why is it so hard then?

“Ultimately, what inspires us to forgive is more often selfishness than anything else. It hurts too much to stay angry and it becomes self-destructive to hold back forgiveness. We forgive for the sake of love; we just sometimes get stuck on the way there.” - Dr. Laura Berman, Berman Center,... full story

Is sleeping apart the key to a happy marriage?

A woman faced jail after stabbing and beating her husband to death. In Britain, one in four couples resort to separate beds. Reason? SNORING partners

The above are tragic-comic glimpses into a serious but rarely discussed issue for couples – sleep incompatibilities. My dude wakes me up... full story

Should race be emphasized in trans-racial adoption?

“Minority children in foster care are being ill-served by a federal law that plays down race and culture in adoptions�

According to a report released recently, white parents... full story

Beyond Geography

Is there a reluctance to say someone who lives in England/United States getting to know someone in the Caribbean? How can that scenario or relationship thrive or move to the next level? – One of my readers asked.

If Russel Crowe got his a** arrested and charged with second -degree assault... full story

Dating cougars and panthers

Older men … older women … where do you draw the line? How much age difference is acceptable?

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Is marriage the enemy really?

“Why would anyone want to screw up a perfectly good relationship by getting themselves married?�

I have heard that line from my friends more often than not whenever one of my friends plans on getting married. And the rate of divorce in this country is doing more harm to people’s view... full story

Strip club issues

She knows he likes strip clubs and that kills her. But she has decided to take him to a strip club for his birthday. She would really love to be the girl who doesn’t mind but she just can’t shut down those images in her memory (women rubbing themselves on her man in front of her) and it... full story

Should you keep secrets from your partner?

Yes! Yes! Some things are better left bottled up inside of you.

Whenever you meet that special someone you are supposed to share everything … that I don’t dispute … your fears, dreams, thoughts, bills, medicine cabinets! I don’t dispute that. But there are things we share that kinda... full story

Interracial porn getting us off?

I do not deny the fact that the use of race in fantasy scenarios aids the process of arousal … hot Latina women, big black d*** … you know what you search for when looking for porn online.

The race of these actors and actresses, as set by most porn films’ themes or as construed by the... full story