Are mixed race children better looking?
Well, I am sure you have heard of that. I am also sure that some people have had interracial relationships for this reason only. Why do people believe that if an interracial couple has children that they will instantly produce beautiful babies?
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Is getting into an interracial relationship for the sole reason of getting 'beautiful babies' the right reason to date interracially?
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fass says:Posted: 15 Jun 08
GET A LIFE! Anyone is free to do what they like as long as they can take care of their children. BYE!
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fass says:Posted: 15 Jun 08
First thing everyone is entitled to do as they please as long as they are not hurting anyone else, with everything else that going on in the world like war hunger and poverty. The most you can write about is negative things. If a black woman want mix babies that up to her. Nothing to do with you or anyone else. LIVE YOUR LIFE! PEOPLE BREATH!
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Muziklicious says:Posted: 15 Jun 08
To Tiger.....you really said it all.My english isn't so great that I could find the right words to explain how I think and feel.But it is good enough to tell catlady that she is a dumb, ignorant,still living in 1826 idiot!I've been dating black guys for the last 15 years and I'm not gonna change that.I'm simply more attracted to black guys and I like the way of living, culture and mentality!I had bad relationships and people told me to find a german guy."They" are no good.I asked them...hey if I had 5 bad relationships with white guys,would you tell me to find a black man??What can I say...they couldn't answer me.So I don't date black guys to have a mixed baby,I don't even know if I want kids but I think they are beautiful....inside and outside!Just don't look at skin color...think of what stands behind it.Love without prejudice or fear.
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ethereal99 says:Posted: 13 Jun 08Salsera77, nice ideas to improve the site. Did you say reticence? Haven't heard that word in a while. I'm glad to see people thinking & trying, rather than bashing & negativity. You go girl !!!!!!!!!
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Becky says:Posted: 12 Jun 08
Anyone who would ask such a silly question, "Are mixed children better looking?" Is not looking past the skin and into the heart. God said, only man looks at man's outer, God looks at man's heart. Catlady, God was tribal not racial. I think you have missed the point of Scripture and Biblical teaching. I happen to mixed race, Italian, Ameri-Indian, Chinese and Black and I love people whether they came half and half or completely whole. People are beautful giving glory to God.
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bella says:Posted: 11 Jun 08I don't know why people have so many hang-up's on skin color in general........ Also I was not aware that there was such a thing as a "real african black"...... From what I know african's come in diffrent shades not just dark skin....... who's to say that the brown skin girl with long curly hair that we see in a commercial is mixed....... people always assume that if they see a brown skin girl with soft hair that she is mixed when in general we are all just one race the human race and the only diffrence is our skin tones, hair texture ect and an african is not just someone who is dark skin with nappy hair and a wide nose.......
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salsera77 says:Posted: 30 May 08Oh and one more I forgot.... Are interracial relationships more fragile and more conducive to breakups than same race relationships. Who (man or woman) is ready to break it off at the first sign of a (small or large) disagreement and at what point in the relationship does that happen (the beginning, 2 months into it?).
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salsera77 says:Posted: 30 May 08
Ria, I've seen your new topics recently. Good Job. Other Suggestions: Top ten best and worst US cities for dating interracially and why. (I know that Philadelphia, Pa. is NOT one of them) (NY, San Francisco, San Diego, & Los Angeles I've heard are some of the best) The reticence of white men to approach and date black women. (Yes, I know black men are bolder and it's also about where I live....nevertheless)
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latrelle says:Posted: 30 May 08
Yes Ria. I agree with salsera77 that we need new topics worthy of a good discussion. This topic's outdated, and as such should be left in the past and treated as just that: history. Let's not keep beating that dead Race horse, shall we? I have a much better topic to suggest for your column:- "Men Who Can't Love" (based on a book written by Steven Carter, a man whose own life parallels the title). Great insight on the commitmentphobe! If that doen't work, how about "Passive-Aggressive Behavior in Men" (and sometimes women, but research has shown it's primarily a male issue). Okay, that's my two-cents or ha' penny. I'm done here....
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salsera77 says:Posted: 29 May 08
Ria, Ria, where do I submit my suggestions for topics? I'm serious. Would you consider them?
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www.sortitout.com says:Posted: 26 May 08
Oh my gosh!. What is a mum to be to do??. I know ignore ignorant comments, and be the best mum i can be to my child. Also the father to be is a faithful,great individual.I thought the health of your children was more important than anything else.Speaking to my partner,he said,"I WAS HOPING TO FALL IN LOVE SOMEDAY,I JUST THOUGHT YOU WOULD BE DARKER". WE ALL HAVE OUR IDEAL PARTNER IN OUR MINDS,BUT IT DOESN'T ALWAYS AGREE WITH WHATS INSIDE OUR HEARTS.Julia
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turnoffjewtube says:Posted: 22 May 08
More "Cut and Paste" for all: "We will openly reveal our identity with the races of Asia and Africa. I can state with assurance that the last generation of white children is now being born. Our Control Commissions will, in the interests of peace, and wiping out inter-racial tensions, forbid the whites to mate with whites. The white women must cohabit with members of the dark races, the white men with black women. Thus the white race will disappear, for mixing the dark with the white means the end of the white man, and our most dangerous enemy will become only a memory. We shall embark upon an era of ten thousand years of peace and plenty, the Pax Judaica, and our race will rule undisputed over the world. Our superior intelligence will easily enable us to retain mastery over a world of dark peoples." “A speech of Rabbi Emanuel Rabinovich before a special meeting of the Emergency Council of European Rabbis in Budapest, Hungary, January 12, 1952
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Medgurl86 says:Posted: 22 May 08I am mixed with black and white. Most people confuse me with being spanish. What upset me the most when I was young , me and mother would be shopping and people would just stare. Typically older caucasions. My mother is dark skin I guess thats why they would do this.Rude people!! The most annoying thing, was when I would talk to guys or go to the beauty salon; the first thing they always asked, are you mixed? So aggravated I would always say, "nope..
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l3wilso says:Posted: 21 May 08
TurnoffJewtube, I recommend that you do more reading (research)in regards to your "copy & paste" of information. There is much more that relates to that idealogy. I also recommend that you grasp a better understanding of what you read before you "copy & paste". Just a thought........
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TurnoffJewtube says:Posted: 20 May 08
The Jewish Plan for Genocide of USA Whites ISRAEL COHEN (1912) "We must realize that our party's most powerful weapon is racial tensions. By propounding into the consciousness of the dark races that for centuries they have been oppressed by whites, we can mold them to the program of the Communist Party. In America we will aim for subtle victory. While inflaming the Negro minority against the whites, we will endeavor to instill in the whites a guilt complex for their exploitation of the Negros. We will aid the Negroes to rise in prominence in every walk of life, in the professions and in the world of sports and entertainment. With this prestige, the Negro will be able to intermarry with the whites and begin a process which will deliver America to our cause." Israel Cohen, A Racial Program for the Twentieth Century, 1912. Also in the Congressional Record, Vol. 103, p. 8559, June 7, 1957 top of page
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MissJamaica says:Posted: 18 May 08
I agree with a few of the points in here. Yes MANY people want mixed children. I have a darkskin exboyfriend that is dying to be with a mixed-looking girl (lightskin, slim, with the spanish-y or indian type of hair) because he feels (even though he makes good money and has a couple college degrees) that life is easier and certain circles easier to gain entrance to when you are not dark like him. I got my hair relaxed at one point after a long period of growing it out and he decided because it looked so nice day after day (as opposed to hair that looks nice the day or two after the stylist does it and then like hell after) that i must be mixed with something...noooooo it's not only mixed people that can have healthy hair that grows out of their scalp, not bought in a store. I was surprised to hear a successful black man talking like that. But he doesn't date white (yet) because he doesn't feel he has anything in common with them. So he is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Good luck to him on that one. So yes that is alive and well. Black and white women alike lose their minds over light skinned black men (although i will say the MEN have easier time getting sex and relations even when dark because the so-called mystery appeal of dark skin works for men, but not for women). But also, i have read and heard of many dark skin black women saying WHITE men treat them better than black men. It is very hard for a dark skin black woman to get notice with the same level of effort as a brown skin or light skin woman. I didn't realize how hard til i heard my friend (dark skin woman) say she has to make sure she is on point and giving off an air that makes guys 1. stop and take a second look and realize she does actually look good since she's dark, and 2. bring their A game because she does not deal with bums and bullsh*t. I never had to think in terms of that. And yes, she has found white men treat her great. She's married to a black man from an African country though. One thing she did say that threw me for a loop was that a white guy wanted babies off her because he thought she would make beautiful brown babies. But she already had a son that was dark skin, and said she was not going to have her son being the only dark skin child, she wanted them all her colour. I wondered if she thought the lightskin children would grow up feeling like they are better than her because of the treatment lightskin mix kids get in america... Now I have a black son (with american indian in him from his father, so his hair has some curl to it), and a mixed daughter who's hair has the thick heavy curls of the white-skin indian boys...she does have an extremely pretty face, but my son gets lots of compliments unless they are both together...then i notice complete strangers go out of their way to talk to her...white, black, whatever...it's like she's a little celebrity. I am a little concerned as to how it will affect my son...but even he says if she has on a certain outfit or a little toddler church dress "mommy she looks SO PRETTY, isn't she pretty mommy"...if even he is caught up in her prettiness, what to say, you know? I try to say yes she is,and you're very cute too, both my kids are real cute! But one day he will notice. Lucky for me they are not both boys, i think it's easier for a guy to accept his sister getting more attention on the road than him, you know? I do think people mate and have sexual attraction based on potential for healthy AND GOOD LOOKING children. Even grandparents will make their little comments that are funny yet serious about having cute grandchildren and not making their grandkids with some dude lacking in either looks, brains, or character. So it's not limited to just racial looks. It's natural to want good looking children. Mixed children in my opinion either come out looking really good or really WEIRD. Personality also determines a lot. HOwever I have noticed (esp. with black people) that folks tend to over scrutinize the mixed and it's like they can't have a bad day like everyone else...if they are not smiling and trying to basically make people feel comfortable and NOT threatened by their mixedness or their perceived status in society, it's "oh he/she think she cute, acting like his/her sh*t don't stink, like he/she better than everybody else"...you keep acting like that around a person, eventually they will think so. It's less about them believing they are above you, than about you believing they are above you. I have seen light skin mixed guys who don't actually look good get attention and develop some really misplaced conceit because some hood rat chicks think they are the best thing since slice bread JUST because he's red. Once I realized that I may have been ingrained with the pre-tendency to decide a lightskin guy automatically looks good, i made a point to pay attention to whether their face actually looks good to me or not (and actually i tend to assume mixed guys are washed out and less in bed somehow, so my bias to overcome here is to actually give them a chance if they really look good). I automatically get turned on by dark skin men with smooth even skin tone (as does half the world, it seems), so i try to stop stereotyping in that direction too...but that's something weird with me and I don't know what it means...anybody care to tell me what this means about me? >>>I tend to be most attracted to jet black men or straight white (not black acting, not mixed, just white) men...what does that mean since they are so opposite? Mixed guys always seem nice to look at but i don't get the same instant reaction to most of them...even when reading profiles it's only a few mixed ones that grab me off the bat... All that said, fine to want good looking kids, not fine to decide to base your marriage on that and sexual attraction. I know I am not even trying to have any more children so that's definitely not a motivation for me. I just want to open my dating pool without wearing out a bunch of outfits and using up my gas. Internet costs nothing extra for me to meet/weed out potential guys, so here I am! :D
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jluchini says:Posted: 17 May 08I don't think its ok to have an interracial relationship just to see what your kids turn out looking like.
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xeltron says:Posted: 16 May 08now THIS is a stupid post! I love my girls, they just happen to be mixed(and quite beautiful).
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Starthai says:Posted: 09 May 08Skyprincess1 said: "That slavery mentality that girlsixdiva mentioned is still very much alive in our culture and a lot of dark skinned black women will snub a lighter skinned black woman only because of her skin color, hair, eyes, etc." Keep in mind it is vice versa. Coming from a dark-skinned women I know for a fact dark-skinned women are not jealous of light-skinned women. You will find that many of us love our chocholate skin tones. I think what so many of us have observed is the colorism in the community and media, etc; and how you do find many light-skinned women who up play on the advantages, which I don't blame, but also you will find a lot that try and play on a dark-skinned womans self-esteem for many reasons. So, it is probably not jealousy at all it's other things that have been observed. I know I'm speaking for a lot of the beautiful dark-skinned women when I say we love our skin tones, I sometimes wish I was a shade darker, yet I can't emphasize enough I love my Hershey bar skin tone. Maybe oneday people will stop endeavoring to attack the dark-skinned women, because of their own surreptitious insecurities :)
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Starthai says:Posted: 09 May 08
CatLady your trying to weed out your competition, just love yourself and you'll be fine :)
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Ladybug111373 says:Posted: 26 Apr 08
To marry or date a person of a different color to have a "pretty baby" is wrong! Whatever happened to loving someone for who they are regardless of their outer shell?? So many of you said we bleed the same, and I agree completely. There is no difference between you or I except our skin tone may be lighter or darker than then next. Big deal...we are all still beautiful people right? My husband is black, and I am white. When we met, I saw a man who made me laugh. When I fell in love with him, I saw a man who loved me and I loved him. Not because I am white and he is black, but because we respect and honor one another completely. At what point will we start looking at the inside, instead of the out? A few people mentioned ugly people...we have to remember...there is someone for everyone. The person you may find unattractive, may be the finest looking thing to the next person. We need to stop letting the media posion our minds with their views of whats what. Live for yourself, and your desires. If you like it, I love it! As for catlady...get a life. You own cats because you are miserable, and no one wants you. Your ignorace omits from the rubbish you type. A God fearing woman would accept all that life has to offer, and nor misquote the bible to make yourself into something your not. A god fearing man or woman would truly accept any and all persons for who they are...not the what they are! On a final note...I have 4 beautiful multiracial children. While my skin is white, and their dad is black they are a wonderful mixture of German, French, Austrian, African American, Irish, and Indian. It doesn't matter the color of their skin, or the texture of their hair...all that matters, is they are loved completely...just for being them!
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lilywhite62 says:Posted: 26 Apr 08The question here is whether getting into an interracial relationship SOLELY to produce "beautiful" babies is wrong...my answer to that is a resounding YES!!! A relationship should be based on mutual attraction for the other person....that attraction cannot be purely physical, or it will not last. It cannot be based on only one common trait, no matter what that is. There must be mutual respect, common interests, a genuine sense of like for that other person. I believe a baby born of true love and friendship is the most beautiful baby, because that child will reflect the love and caring that he/she is born into..
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Be@TiFuLsOuL!! says:Posted: 24 Apr 08
I personally love people of all races. I grew up in Manhattan and have gotten used to the fact that there are physically beautiful people in every race. But just because you have an attractive face does not mean that your personality is at all attractive. My mom is very light skinned and my dad is dark skinned. I have 3 sisters and we are all different complexions. My older sister is very light-skinned, another is dark skinned, and me and my other sister are right in the middle. Growing up people would say that my family was a direct reflection of the beauty of the black race. We didnt have to be mixed to be "beautiful". One of my sisters is currently married to an Italian and i couldnt be more happy for her. She is very happy and they are not worried about having children anytime soon. I myself have dated many races and it was about the how I felt being with them, not about our possible children.
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BillyMedley says:Posted: 17 Apr 08I'll talk about what I know the most about. Half Thai and Half white children. Which I have two, a boy and a girl. They are beautiful. When my Ex was in the grocery store (in Thailand)people would come up and say how beautiful the children were. As a teacher I would see a lot of children and when we got a new student I could tell quickly if they were half. Would this be a reason to have interracial children? No, that should be for love.
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lilo4love says:Posted: 12 Apr 08
Lol agreed Pedro. I think the Sudanese are the most beautiful people in the world. Really, their dark skin and strong features are like wow. Alek Wek is proof of that. I would never marry interracial because i wanted "beautiful kids."
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pedro says:Posted: 11 Apr 08
I'm sure most here will agree that there should be more interracial dating interaction in general, because the US is way behind in that department. This attitude is just not healthy for the perpetually trumped up 'troubled race relations'. Enough artificial segregation, enough racial pride, enough race cards, enough Aff. Action... It is clear, to me at least, that eventually mixed people will become the norm. So can we end this debate and agree there will both ugly and attractive people for all time from all races? Thank you.
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ethereal99 says:Posted: 10 Apr 08
It's feels more natural to concentrate on the person you are dating. Do you have THAT feeling about them? Hopefully, you know what I mean. The way you think about them when you're apart & the great times when you're together. If you have time to dissect the relationship by worrying if your children will be beautiful looking enough to please others, then I feel sorry for you.
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 09 Apr 08
Of course people date to have pretty babies. Think of the reverse. Have u ever heard a woman say, dang that man is ugly and I want some ugly babies. Its a natural thing. I guess the question has offended some folks, but hey not everyone has the same standards of beauty. I am sure there are white women out there who, consciously or not, choose a man who will give them a blonde haired, blue eyed baby.
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HereIamBaby says:Posted: 09 Apr 08Blah blah blah blah blah...I have never seen a child that was of two races that was not beautiful...They have the best of two worlds, both genes from both sides...AND why is it that you see a beautiful child with lighter skin...when I see a beautiful child with darker skin! White pasty pale skin does not do it for me. Once again it boils down to what our preferences are. Some people like white chocolate or milk chocolate...me, I prefer DARK choclate with rashberry filling! Southern smiles and world peace, Sharon
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cnoter says:Posted: 09 Apr 08Looks like catlady cant read. Some people belive whatever they cant read, AKA:Someone who cant read and belives the one that can read and fills your mind with S%#T.A FOLLOWER. Catlady Sounds like backwoods phycho bable to me. Opp's did I say bable....Ya just a bunch of noise.For us that can read...in context. But in all fairness...We forgive your IGNORANCE!!! My son is mixed and he's VERY Good looking.I hope he dont break too many hearts when he gets older.LOL.
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neciereaves says:Posted: 08 Apr 08Cloe27: Your comments were funny! "fugly mofos" come in all flavors. I've seen two beautiful people with outright MUGLY children! It's a real role of the dice.
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Cloe27 says:Posted: 08 Apr 08Concerned citizen, you are out of control! But I like it.LOL Listen, I don't care if the parents are green and orange if they're pulling from a half way decent gene pool chances are they're gonna have a looker. On the other hand, if one or both are fugly mofos....well, you all get my point. It's all a roll of the dice if you ask me. If your child's looks are your main concern rather than 10 fingers and 10 toes, you're setting your kid up to have a pretty lousy parent.
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neciereaves says:Posted: 08 Apr 08
Well, my children are very beautiful. I just so happen to be mixed with a whole bunch of things. I am medium to dark skinned and my children are light skinned. People (mainly black) always admire my children's hair and tell me "Oh, your kids are so beautiful! Is their father WHITE?" I can't help but to be very annoyed by this question. Their father is not white. He is just as dark as I am. The brats just don't go outside and play in the sun without sunscreen like I did as a child. Their hair is fine and losely curled like mine. Is their light complexion and fine hair what makes them beautiful to other people? I just don't get it. I mean, I appreciate the compliment about them being beautiful and all but come on! Does it really matter WHAT color their father is? Beautiful children are beautiful children! I've seen all shapes and colors and shades of some ugly behind people INCLUDING interracial children. I have a neice and nephew - their mother is white and father is black. They're not as cute as my kids. LOL!!! There may be a little bias in that last statement. :o) What's so beautiful about interracial children? The fact that their parents came together and loved each other in spite of their difference. That is beautiful! Necie
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SmpyItalian says:Posted: 08 Apr 08
Puuleaseeee.... I have seen some ugly babies, and im sure ya'll have too. Especially if its with an anglo looking white guy. On the other hand a goodlooking baby would be made with an italian man like myself. Now on the other hand whne you see a black guy with a white womans baby, the hair on the baby girl is all out of control, the whitewoman doesnt manage the hair and the kid looks ridiculous. Thats why italian men with black women make good looking kids. BLACKLIMOCAR@YAHOO.COM
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kandypistola says:Posted: 05 Apr 08I think wow says it all. First and foremost the sheer baseness oft the question. Do people really date to have pretty babies? That seems pretty reductive, juvenile and quite pathological to me and lastly it goes to shoe just what a hot button issue race still is in the black community and how people feel the need to defend or propagate inane rhetoric over and over again to suit some insatiable need to prove that we are worthy for having the feelings or issues, as they may be, that we have. Why can't we just be...regardless of our "preferences"? It seems such a shallow question in a world where black women look in the mirror and hate what they see...wish their weave was longer, or hair was less kinkier or nose were smaller or butt was less bouncy, or we wish our hair was more kinkier our skin were a bit more dark and luscious, our features were more ethnic. Why do we have to continue to define humanity by race. yes, i'm black, yes i'm a woman and yes I may even be a bit flawed with insecurities and idiosyncrasies that I'm not proud of...but seriously...to seek out a mate for pretty babies? Just seems sad. We (black women) have rich and varied experiences in our lives, we are doctors, lawyers, homemakers, tv producers, artists, lovers fighters and more. We are all special because of our rich and varied experiences and our ethnic make-up should only enhance that experience, I just weep for our culture and societies stranglehold on it. I hope that one day we can all see past our own issues with color and identity.
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mossimo36 says:Posted: 05 Apr 08
Catlady posted one time 16 days ago and we are still feeding the troll, lol
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faithful1946 says:Posted: 05 Apr 08To Catlady, I am White, my husbands were Black and I have 2 beautiful girls, 3 grandkids, and 1 great grandchild. I love them all and wouldn't trade them for the world. My daughters have the best of both worlds and they love it. My grandkids also have the best of both worlds. They are very smart and excel in school. One of these days, there will be no different races, as all will be mixed. I lived in Phoenx, AZ, CA, and other places and that is all you see nowdays. I agree with fala, What are you doing on this site.
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victor32 says:Posted: 27 Mar 08I have three wonderful biracial and i love them very much. they are gods gift to me and i feel lucky that they are in my life. Everyday they surprise me and what they are capable of and how each of them depend on me. They do come in contact with ignorant people sometimes who stare and whisper ( white and black) and i tell then that they do not know any better an do not hate them. Be proud of who you are and where you come from. To the people out there that do not understand, we do not have the problem you do and as soon as you realize it, the sooner you can address it. And by the way jojolove you a very attractive lady
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jojolove says:Posted: 27 Mar 08Catlady wrote what she wrote to get a reply and to start trouble especially with this site being an interracial site, so I will not give her the satisfaction of replying.... anyway if you are having babies with someone of another race because you want your child to be "beautiful" what are u saying about your own race. Are you saying that your race is not able to produce beauty with out the help of another race? Im not biracial and Im beautiful. To have a biracial child for looks says one thing about you IGNORANT. I teach school and lots of beautiful bircaial children but their parents are so ignorant they are more worried about how their kids' physcial appearance not their education. Yes they are cute but they cant read cant write dont have basic knowledege that is not cute at all. Geesh I thought people had children to express love for one another. I got nappy hair dark skin full lips and I love it but If i feel the need to change it up the I take my ass to the nearset beauty store and buy me some weave. If you dont love your self dont expect someone of another race to love you. If anything they are laughing at you because you deny yourself and who you are.
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Twiggyrich says:Posted: 26 Mar 08
There are sooo many beauitful skin tones and hues, from darkest of dark to lightes of light, God has made no mistake about it. To have a healthy child is a beauitful thing, a child can reach back and get his skin tone and physical appearances from another realitive such as a grandparent. I would date a white man for the same reasons I would date a black man, for love only and not because I want fair completion children. Let's not give catlady anymore attention. Twiggyrich
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choco-malaca says:Posted: 26 Mar 08
well well, some of those kids do turn out to be full dark.....despite the mixed race....or they can turn to be a good mix..... away all kids are cute when born LOL.......So Cat-lady i think u should sit back and review ur culture, race and the bible that u read cause that ain't right before even the lord u worship ....... That's all and anyway it take's 2 to tango..... anyone can make perfect good looking kiddo's despite the race!!!!!!!
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cutie2008 says:Posted: 26 Mar 08
I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AFRICAN/AFRICAN AMERICAN DAUGHTER WITH MY EX HUSBAND! ALL I GOT TO SAY IS! IT'S NOT ABOUT RACE! IT'S ABOUT YOU AND THE PERSON THAT YOU PROCREATE WITH! THAT WILL DETERMINE THE BEAUTY OF YOUR CHILD!
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fala says:Posted: 25 Mar 08
LMAO@G6 - I love the troll comment! Hey, I like the new pic too.
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fkoi says:Posted: 24 Mar 08Having a baby of any description is never a good reason to get into a relationship. That's one reason why there are so many unwanted babies and babies being raised by folks who don't have a clue. Even having a baby as an expression of a wonderful loving relationship doesn't always work out for the best for the child but at least it is a good start. Anyone foolish enough to try to engineer skin tone of offspring through mating is ignorant of genetics. Especially with all of the genetic mixing that has gone on over the ages, intentional and on the q.t. Hitler thought the perfect babies were blonde and blue-eyed. Others say those are the traits of the white devil. Making decisions based on skin colour and/or tone has always been ignorant and wrong. This is no different. So if you are planning to make a baby, interracial or otherwise, for that reason, or any equally shallow reasons, do the human race a favor and be sure to use birth control.
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ethereal99 says:Posted: 24 Mar 08
Is getting into an interracial relationship for the sole reason of getting ‘beautiful babies’ the right reason to date interracially? Ok, I cut & pasted the question. In my opinion: of course by only wanting a good looking child is not the right reason to date interacially or otherwise. We all know that there are some people who do think that way though. This shows little consideration as they are using there partner as a tool. Right on to Coco & many of you folks who can see past the ignorance. Tiger, I agree this is a dumb question & the constant race issue questions are tiring, but you did write an interesting, intelligent reponse. In the end, these type of questions will always get a reaction, lot's of responses & in the end, entertainment for many which keeps the site going.
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