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Are vulnerable women weak?

Posted by Matthew, 27 Jan

Do you ever find yourself shut off from meeting people, reluctant to go out, or adverse to risk in your love life?

This week I want to make a distinction between weakness and vulnerability because too often, I speak to women who think that vulnerability is a weakness. If you think about it, most of us are afraid of being vulnerable because we're afraid we will be perceived as weak but by definition, it takes courage to be vulnerable.

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Well, here is how vulnerability can work to your advantage.

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.