Why Don't Men Hate Being Single As Much As Women Do? One of our readers Elaine dropped us an email wondering why women hate being single. It read: Dear Evan, Why don’t men hate being single as much as women do? I know you say most men are marriage-m...

So... What Do Black Men REALLY Think About Black Women Dating Interracially? I know some of the fans here are probably saying, “Who cares?” You may not, but I guarantee you that there are many, many, MANY black women who read this blog still incredibly concerned about what...

5 Flirty Treats That Will Melt Him Did you know a little bit of creativity goes a looong way in flirting? When a guy sees you do something unexpected (but alluring), it makes him see you in a totally new way. Unfortunately, most peopl...

Is Black Media Responsible for Manipulating Us with #BlackLove Since 2010, my critics–many of them in so-called “black media–have argued that a site like Beyond Black & White don’t need to exist. If black women want to interracially date and marry, th...

6 Behaviors That Kill Relationships {Video} In today's video, I highlight for you 6 relationship-killing behaviors to avoid at all costs if you want to keep an amazing guy...

Kendall St. Charles: "Black Women Demand MORE of White Men" A very interesting conversation came to pass when I created this meme and distributed throughout our social media pages. There were a few quotes that stood out to me that we should discuss. “They w...

What You Can Learn From a Real-Life "He's Just Not That Into You" Situation Here is an email from one of our readers, Charlene: I am 41, divorced with two kids. Three months ago, I met someone, 38, no kids, never been married. We exchanged phone numbers, went out a couple tim...

Cheating, Dating, and Getting Rid Of The Wrong Guys {VIDEO} In this video, I reveal what you should do when faced with a cheater in relationships, talk about the secret to dating successfully past 40 among other things...

Who Would Sacrifice Their Interracial Relationship for Black Issues? I received a desperate note from a fan on our Facebook fan page, on the heels of the embarrassing Black Love interview with a woman who proclaimed alliance to black people and discouraged other people...

The Dumbest Dating Mistake Everyone Makes...{Video} In this week’s video, I’m about to show you why this one particular response relates to a huge mistake 99% of people make in dating. Make sure you don’t fall into this common trap...