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China Struggles with 33 Million Shortage of Marriageable Women

Posted by Christelyn, 14 Jun

Black women thought the two million black man shortage was bad. Imagine what Chinese men are going through now that there are 33 million more men than women in their country. Where are all the women? Up until 2015, many Chinese girls didn’t make it past the ultrasound as a result of the country’s horrible one-child policy that left millions and millions of female souls unborn. Now the country is reaping its karma and the Chinese government is desperate to find ways to cope with all the testosterone and sexual compulsions millions of their male, involuntarily celibate men are about to face.

While black women may complain, settle, and cry to their girlfriends about not being about to find a good black man, the estrogen that comprises us is a mostly peaceful hormone. Think long and hard (oops!) about 33 million horny men with all that testosterone and nowhere to direct it. The country is legitimately worried that more sex crimes, kidnappings, crimes of all kinds, and Lord knows what else (wife stealing?) could cause major disruption in their neat and tidy conformist society.

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The sheer numbers of unmated men are a further cause for concern. Because they may lack a stake in the existing social order, it is feared that they will become bound together in an outcast culture with the potential for more organised aggression, turning to antisocial behaviour and crime, thereby threatening societal stability and security [SOURCE]

Perhaps China needs to start a program to recruit women from other countries to come there for potential marriage matches. Dating coach programs have proliferated in recent years and could be a boon for the PUA’s here in the U.S. But…even if you can make more nerdy guys seem cool, that doesn’t solve the very real, concrete numbers problem. So how then, will China address this? Will we be seeing more importing of women of other countries, cultures, and nationalities invited to be partners with Chinese men? The very idea has some pretty interesting implications for what the landscape of dating and mating may look like when you add a little chocolate and cinnamon in the ginger.

We shall see. What say all of you about this?

Christelyn Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed. She also operates the popular blog, Beyond Black & White, and operate the first forum dedicated to black women interested and/or involved in interracial relationships.

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  1.   Prismatic says:
    Posted: 02 Dec 18

    I watched a short documentary on YouTube about the shortage of women in China. I think it was directed by Vice. However, what I got from it is most of the men are located in the country and aren't as educated as the women. This father went to a match maker to find wives for his sons but the women the match maker had were educated city women and the sons rejected them (without meeting them) because of that. There is no doubt a shortage but there are other reasons some of these people haven't found a SO.

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  2.   blackbelle01 says:
    Posted: 03 Nov 18

    This is so sad and it is not their fault it is the fault of their government I find Asian men to be very handsome. Russell Wong anyone.

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  3.   Mona67 says:
    Posted: 03 Jul 18

    Hopefully they'll look across the ocean and not go the way of Gilead

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  4.   Mosiah7 says:
    Posted: 24 Jun 18

    As a single black man I'll be glad to take at least one of those Chinese women off their hands. Many of those Asian women are beautiful.

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  5.   Pleezu2 says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 18

    Here's an even more sobering, perhaps frightening thought There may indeed be an even deeper, sinister plot behind the apparency - just think about THIS -- 33 million "loveless" testosterone frenzied males - what better psycho preparation for a mega-sized all conquering ARMY!!

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  6.   Pleezu2 says:
    Posted: 19 Jun 18

    More social engineering -- equals more lack of understanding of the essential nature and motivation to ALL life -- LOVE. Take that out of the equation and you get disaster. Duh!?&^*8 @ .............

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