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  1.   Ruth116 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 21

    A young woman was having a conversation with her pastor, lamenting her singleness. "Pastor, I'm 34 years old and I still haven't got married". "God has a plan for you. It's one man for one woman. There's no improving on it." Encouraged, the woman says to the pastor, "I don't want to improve on God's plan. I just want to get in on it!"

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  2.   cn2020 says:
    Posted: 03 Feb 21

    I really want to find a catering, serious ,honest man and God fearing to be my true love for life and most importantly a man we both have same chemistry.

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  3.   sissybansong says:
    Posted: 07 Nov 20

    don't feel so big to reach out to me am just small as the aunt !! lol

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  4.   Sliiimdoll says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 20

    Just want to be happy with no worries

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  5.   dialloamadou says:
    Posted: 03 Dec 19

    I hope too fine a nice guys in this site. I like a good woman

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  6.   puregolduc says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 19

    Ask for don't wait for someone to ask you

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  7.   puregolduc says:
    Posted: 19 Sep 19

    No time work for it

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  8.   Queenet82 says:
    Posted: 17 Sep 19

    I desire to meet a loving, caring truthful man with the fear of God here that can love me whole heartedly and we live happily ever. Preferably a white man but most importantly, a man we both have chemistry

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    • danfx says:
      Posted: 04 Oct 19

      am a Nigerian. I know how to cook tasty meals. am a Catholic. I believe that what is meant to be will be. you look beautiful my queen.

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    • Tonyglamour says:
      Posted: 19 Sep 20

      Wish you good luck and i hope you fine the real man

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  9.   Diatrustu says:
    Posted: 16 Sep 19

    You are funny

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  10.   Charlezman says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 19

    It's interracial ......... So am here to get a lady of different race I will welcome her if she gets interested in me

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  11.   TVMN says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 19

    Could relate to her story hope mine ends well too!

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  12.   Sadayo says:
    Posted: 23 Jul 19

    Surely in ma Life I need a white girlfriend I could love her beyond the even if she's btn 50-20 of age am more than ready 4 her.

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  13.   ramofi says:
    Posted: 28 Jun 19

    hello! I need lovely , caring girlfriend

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  14.   Oldbabe says:
    Posted: 20 Jun 19

    I am here to find a mature man aged 45-65 for friendship, love and Marriage.

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  15.   Gratoes says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 19

    My only problem is I'm afraid to date a man who is younger than me

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    • panae says:
      Posted: 19 Jun 19

      No no no! Don't be scared by that. At least get scared by living without someone who you must string attached to. Age mean nothing when it comes to love. Listen to your heart and get rid of the fear of unkown.

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    • Mwapangasha says:
      Posted: 15 Jul 19

      Don't be afraid age are just numbers and they have nothing to do in relationship

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  16.   Bagaree says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 19

    I hope to find good woman here

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  17.   DEPLOX says:
    Posted: 15 May 19

    I have admired your profile pliz....and especially the Canadian you're welcome dear

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  18.   briiiii82 says:
    Posted: 14 May 19

    she could not trust me and it made me hard to love again,i know yu are out there come and redeem my faith nd love

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    • Stina200 says:
      Posted: 08 Sep 19

      You are the one to make the boat sail again. You hold the power to make it happen again.

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  19.   Basigar says:
    Posted: 22 Apr 19

    I am writing for you.... please come in my life

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  20.   Fabian15 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 19

    I wish i will get a nice girlfriend

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  21.   Tessydee says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 19

    I need a caring, God fearing man that will be my friend and lover...long term relationship please

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  22.   olu76 says:
    Posted: 02 Apr 19

    Hi

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  23.   Carolove123 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 19

    I hope to find a God fearing gentleman. 46_59 years.

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  24.   Immay says:
    Posted: 23 Mar 19

    I will wait for my God fearing man

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    • Ruth116 says:
      Posted: 19 Apr 21

      Same here; great things --- and guys, come to those who wait!

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  25.   Tayakay says:
    Posted: 20 Mar 19

    I will wait for you my king

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  26.   2i2i says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 19

    I need my soulmate God fear

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  27.   P540 says:
    Posted: 26 Feb 19

    I think it is about time that i get off the bench

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  28.   Planboy says:
    Posted: 22 Feb 19

    Ineed a girlfriend

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  29.   HAERDSOME says:
    Posted: 16 Feb 19

    cool

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  30.   divanita36 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 18

    I think it's about time I got off the bench. I want a serious relationship that could lead to marriage

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  31.   Aporas says:
    Posted: 19 Nov 18

    I need a hot girl

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  32.   Richyblack says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 18

    Please if there's any good looking and God fearing woman of about 21 to 25yrs of age around sapele should please let me know thanks.

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  33.   ellashiva says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 18

    Hi I wanna meet my soulmate who's probably ready to settle down and not more than 35yrs.

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  34.   emprendedor says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 18

    I’m a real gentleman waiting for you

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  35.   emprendedor says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 18

    I would like to meet a wonderful woman.

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  36.   natniyen says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 18

    I need a loving and caring man to share my life with

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  37.   Ksmsra says:
    Posted: 01 Oct 18

    I rich woman relationship that will help me with day to days activities

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  38.   pattykevin says:
    Posted: 29 Sep 18

    True love exists but trust is hard to get

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  39.   Sajadmalik says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 18

    Hi

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    • Argin says:
      Posted: 17 Oct 18

      Hello I'm Camila from cebu ,nice to meet u here ...hoping I can here u again

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  40.   Eny4kay says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 18

    get to know your partner before you fall in love

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  41.   Towers2016 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    A Kenyan aged 30 Looking for my companion above 35mature, God fearing and ready to settle down. A real man ready to be loved n love in return preferably in Dubai

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  42.   Towers2016 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    I don’t believe true love exists!

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  43.   Ntusi says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 18

    I need my soulmate around Durban

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  44.   rainbow2000 says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 18

    What is this

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  45.   FunkyFunkid says:
    Posted: 31 Aug 18

    Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be inside some one's heart any real trustworthy woman out here on Afro?

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  46.   Noila says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 18

    I need my soulmate God fearing and understanding.

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  47.   nawen says:
    Posted: 15 Aug 18

    Wooooooooow how can I stay on a bench i just wanna be insidesome one's heart any real trustworthy man out here on Afro?.

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    • okwany says:
      Posted: 26 Aug 18

      Wow! Nawen thats` great then, i think your are the best lover in the world dear. Please can we link up swry`

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  48.   ActionAJ says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 18

    I'm looking for the special female whom I can admire, conversate,explore, challenge and most of important love.

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  49.   Enna78 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 18

    I need a God-fearing man who will truly love me.

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  50.   Skylark101 says:
    Posted: 30 Jul 18

    Am here to hookup with real a real Lady for dating, hope I'll find one...

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