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Matthew Hussey: Do's and Don'ts for Your First Date
Matthew's at it again with a few gems of advice to prep you before you go out on that date. Matthew suggests:
- Don't take too long to get ready for a date. The longer you prep, the more nervous you get.
- Get physical right from the start. Give your date a hug, a high-five, a touch on the shoulder.
- Let him be the man. Let him feel needed and chivalrous.
- Don't spend time worrying about awkward silences. Let the silence pass without worrying about filling the space up.
- No complaining! No whining! Make a positive impression and don't moan about your life. Remember you're selling yourself!
- Laugh through the date. It's a great way to break the tension. Guys like women that make them feel funny. He'll have more attraction for you.
- Let every part of your personality shine through.
- Don't talk about your ex! Even if he asks, he really doesn't want to know.
- Make eye contact. When he's speaking, stare deeply into his eyes.
- Make the date short and sweet. Leave him wanting more!
- Most importantly, RELAX!
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Goodlll says:Posted: 02 JulThanks for sharing this..I love to be touched and wanted
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Jannyehi says:Posted: 09 MayThanks for the advice, because I'm a boring type
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CeeTinah says:Posted: 20 AprAny white guy looking for a black African Woman? Let's give love a chance ❤️
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Chukulu says:Posted: 14 Jan 23Thanks for your advise but I have tried many of these men none wants to respond. I Don know why and I have seen others testimonials
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Pkish says:Posted: 27 Nov 22Actually, this is a wonderful advice, blessings to this couple, God bless you
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Silversenior says:Posted: 18 Oct 22I appreciate your advice and it’s on point
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Ekiconco says:Posted: 30 Jul 22
Hope to get someone whom I experience with Mathew's tips,thanks grt advice
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Ekiconco says:Posted: 30 Jul 22
Hope to get someone who I experience with Mathew's tips,thanks grt advice
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Brianorina says:Posted: 05 Jun 22
Such a beautiful couple hoping to find one white lady here
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Hazel74 says:Posted: 06 May 22Hope to get someone to go on this date with
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Lesundra says:Posted: 06 Mar 22Thank,s for the Tips, really enjoyed them, please keep them comming, Lesundra.
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TeineSamo4 says:Posted: 04 Mar 22
Good advice, but the only thing is, nobody asked me it in a date yet
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LinnyLee says:Posted: 14 Jan 22So what about what a man should do and not do?
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hellenz says:Posted: 10 Dec 21
How i wish i can get some one to take me to date never experienced that and i like it So much thank you for the tips Matthew Hussey
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TMS3 says:Posted: 23 Oct 21
most of this I've already known. from past dates in My life. but here I go again..looking for Ms. Right
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LocdBeauty11 says:Posted: 18 May 20Matthew always gives good advice! I've been a subscriber for a few years
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Winnyyy says:Posted: 24 Aug 19Wow... Thanks for the tips especially point 9.
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Emma1977 says:Posted: 19 May 19
Give her a hug & buy her a drink& I will not have her in a close door meeting
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Thanks dear for the advise.i got it