She Found Love under a Hard Shell

Posted by Leticia, 06 Jul

Tim traveled a lot for work and thought online dating was a good way to meet people.  Between school and working long hours, Joy had to be judicious in how she used her free time.  “It was easier to meet and screen people online versus meeting people in passing,” she says.

It was Joy’s lovely smile that Tim noticed first.  Intrigued, he sent Joy an email. When she had a moment, she took a look at his profile.  First he passed the all-important picture test—she liked what she saw—and then what he wrote was just as appealing.  As they started talking, Tim could tell that Joy was down-to-earth and well grounded.

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Joy appreciated Tim’s classy approach to courtship.  “He never said or asked anything inappropriate,” she says.  “Conversations were clean and sweet.”

Due to Tim’s demanding schedule, those initial conversations were brief but honest and to the point.  When they met in person, nothing derailed the love train.  In fact, it only picked up steam.  “I thought she was awesome,” Tim recalls.  “I was very pleased.”

Joy was impressed with her date as well.  “I thought he was sweet and had the cutest dimples,” she says.  “His shell was definitely hard, but I was glad he softened it up for me!”

Asked what makes Joy so special to him, Tim has quite the list.  “Her personality, her kindness, morals.  She’s sophisticated, intelligent and she has goals.”

Joy is quick to chime in with a glowing assessment of her man.  “He’s like no one I’ve ever met in my life,” she says.  “He knows what I want before I ask for it.  He’s not too proud to apologize.  And the man can do anything; there’s not too much he can’t fix!  He’s giving of himself and all that he has.”

With feelings like that, what are you going to do?  Get married, that’s what!  Tim and Joy are now husband and wife, with plans to start a family.  We’re certainly pulling for them.

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  1.   Syysyy says:
    Posted: 23 Mar

    Congratulations

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  2.   Syysyy says:
    Posted: 23 Mar

    Congratulations

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  3.   Syysyy says:
    Posted: 23 Mar

    Congratulations

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  4.   Nutella2567 says:
    Posted: 16 Jun 23

    Wow amazing thank you for encouragement

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  5.   Mishle31 says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 21

    Congratulations and blessings to you both.

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  6.   botero29 says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 21

    i beg you to excuse me for the english that i practice because it is very poor but i wanted to greet you and tell you that everything is fine in france it rains often but we are used to it especially in the city of brest where i live and it is a city in the west of france by the ocean i think i have already said a lot of things about me so i hope to be able to hear from you soon it is the future that will say it bye claude a french man

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  7.   Bousigirl says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    Not all who say they want a honest relationship mean it. I'm tired of the scammers.

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  8.   cherubet says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    indeed lovely

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  9.   Sweetliver says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    May the good Lord bless their union

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  10.   Sweetliver says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    May the gpod Lord bless their union

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  11. Posted: 15 Jun 21

    What a lovely story ..congrats guys

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  12. Posted: 15 Jun 21

    What a lovely story ..congrats guys

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  13.   Mgiyo says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    Classy approach indeed, wishing them a lasting relationship. Am inspired to learn that true man who mean what they say still exist. Congrats guys keep that love train moving

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  14.   Tinah2020 says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 21

    Congratulations

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  15.   Doyer says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Congratulations

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  16.   Helenzo says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Congratulations

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  17. Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Congratulations and God bless you

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  18.   GNFS says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Good luck to Tim and Joy, for their union, God bless them.

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  19.   12pansy says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Congratulations to both of us and many more blessing of happiness

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  20.   Dansaleh says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Any cared can work hard to care for me, one try me by email Thanks Shehu Saleh

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  21.   81jcbest says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 21

    Congratulations

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  22.   NJaye says:
    Posted: 06 Sep 19

    How’s absolutely beautiful ! I wish you both all the joy in the world ! May God continue to bless you both richly!! I’m hoping sns praying I’ve met the same type of man !! Prayers would be wonderful!! Blessings

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  23.   josh2km says:
    Posted: 13 Aug 19

    Congrations

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  24.   Zinpe says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 19

    Congratulations

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  25.   QED says:
    Posted: 29 May 19

    Tim made hard shell soft because of Joy. Trust me you'll compromise when you find the missing rib.

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  26.   Mersingle says:
    Posted: 24 May 19

    Congratulation guys,,

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  27.   Anto_4real says:
    Posted: 12 May 19

    Beautiful story with a happy ending. That's what I like to hear. Congrats to you guys. God bless your home

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  28.   Merlinellah says:
    Posted: 04 May 19

    Is nice

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  29.   Onneil says:
    Posted: 23 Apr 19

    Congrats guys can't wait to meet Mr right too

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  30.   TelleGee says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 19

    Congrats

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  31.   DeeB45 says:
    Posted: 10 Apr 19

    What a lovely story. I wish both of you the best. All of these stories give me hope. Distance,age,and real vs fake,are the obstacles I am encountering. I know he is out there. It's just a matter of being open to the possibilities. Congratulations.

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  32.   Rachael2us says:
    Posted: 29 Mar 19

    Congratulations

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  33.   Annlone says:
    Posted: 08 Mar 19

    Oh that's great, congrats to all couples here. I am really waiting to find the love of my life here!!!!!

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  34.   Preetysweet says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 18

    Congratulations.

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  35.   Kasilingi says:
    Posted: 20 Sep 18

    Congs

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  36.   ShonteM says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 18

    That's so beautiful, i can't wait till i meet the man for me!

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  37.   Wimpie71 says:
    Posted: 16 Aug 18

    Congrats to youre both wish you all the luck

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    • stoney44 says:
      Posted: 22 Aug 18

      iam ready to show you my pics on request plz iam not a golddigger and i dont need any thing from you apart from love

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  38.   kushiliz says:
    Posted: 13 Aug 18

    congratulations may you live a happy life together

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  39.   Shaz0304 says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 18

    Happy for you guys,May God bless your new home and I pray I find the man of my dreams here too

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  40.   Sweetypie38 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 18

    Congrats... hopefully I find mine too

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  41.   AdjoaSika says:
    Posted: 01 Jul 18

    Congratulations

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  42.   Mercy1986 says:
    Posted: 08 May 18

    So inspiring.. I hope too will have a testimony one day... Won't give up.soon it gonna work

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  43. Posted: 23 Apr 18

    I wish you happy married life . God bless and I hope very soon I will find my soul mate on this website.

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  44.   Jenneluv says:
    Posted: 20 Feb 18

    Will not give hopefully one day I will meet the one who is meant for me

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  45.   Sugath1000 says:
    Posted: 19 Feb 18

    Very nice

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  46.   Ngutji says:
    Posted: 13 Dec 17

    Very nice congratulations

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  47.   Befine1 says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 17

    Not yet convinced till it gets to me.

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  48.   ooooops says:
    Posted: 15 Oct 17

    U guys are lucky hope u enjoy ur marriage and always be happy hope i atleast also find some one cos honestly am tired i hv tried but most are for games not taking it serious and it hurts so badly

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  49.   ABG4Ya says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 17

    Very inspiring! May God bless you both!

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  50.   Blueice5445 says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 17

    Congratulations to you both

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