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Signs he is secretly saying he loves you

Posted by Ria, 17 Feb

When it comes to love, reading the mind of someone you are falling for can be tricky. If they don't come right out and tell you that they love you, things can get pretty confusing. It is even worse if they are shy. I know it can be pretty frustrating to understand these complex humans. That said, if you are too early in a relationship, there are signs he loves you without saying it that you can watch out for. So, just because he hasn't said the words doesn't mean that they don't have feelings for you.

Seeing as the relationship is young, you probably stop yourself from reading too much into their actions. Well, guess what? Actions do speak louder than words.

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If you want to uncover the sure signs he loves you, keep scrolling because if they are doing some of the things below, then the odds are in your favor.

How do I tell if he loves me

He keeps tabs of things in your life

One of the ways to tell that a guy is in love with you is that they care about you. This guy will drop subtle hints. One of them is that he will always stay in touch with you. When a guy sends you random messages or calls out of nowhere, then he is definitely falling in love with you. For example, he might call you in the middle of the day to ask you what's going on in your life. Much as the conversations might be casual, if he is super interested in the details, he is definitely in love. Even if you're talking about how your dog peed on the neighbor's lawn, he'll laugh like it's the most hilarious story he's ever heard.

He is buying you thoughful gifts

If a guy starts buying you gifts, even if it's just a pair of socks, then they are doing this because they care about you. Maybe he has been paying attention when you keep saying how your feet get cold. He is definitely in the love zone if he pays attention to your needs.

He makes time to spend with you

One of the things he does when he loves you is to make sure you're not bored. This he will do both in person or virtually. A guy who is falling for you is going to make an effort just to see you, even if it's just for a few minutes. He may even postpone his plans just to accompany you somewhere. If you tell him you want something, even if it's in the middle of the night, he will make sure that you get it.

Any guy who loves you will go to whatever lengths just to make you happy. If you have suddenly become his priority, he is definitely in love. The time he wants to spend with you may not necessarily be in the form of dates. It can be just grabbing groceries together. Whatever it is, it's a sign if he puts tremendous effort.

Pay attention to his eyes and body language

Well, someone was right when they said the eyes are the window to one's soul. So if you want to know whether a dude likes you, he will make eye contact with you every time he talks to you. When he is at a distance, they will look at you and appreciate your every move and gesture. For him, your actions and gestures are probably playing in slow motion, and he's entranced by your existence.

The other thing to watch out for is body language. Body language plays a significant role in helping you decipher signs he loves you without saying it. If his gestures seem really different around you than when with other women, he has feelings for you.

He is protective of you

A sure sign of how to know he loves you is his protectiveness. When a guy you are seeing starts protecting you from harm, even if that means picking a fight with a much-much more muscular guy, then his feelings are definitely getting stronger. Any guy who loves you wouldn't even want to imagine an inch of harm coming your way. He'll always be there and will take a bullet for you.

If the guy you are seeing gets pretty jealous of other men when you're around, then that's his way of saying he loves you. He will do things like diving in when he realizes that someone else is making a move on you. So if you are constantly asking yourself – does this shy guy like me, he does for sure. So if you are wondering how to get him to say I love you, his protectiveness has already said it.

Your mood affects his mood

A guy in love with you will do anything to make you happy and cheerful. But, on the other hand, if you're sad about something and confide in him, he will also be sad and will do all he can to cheer you out. So basically, everything that you do will affect him.

A guy that loves will be willing to do everything in his power to make you feel yourself, even when it's an inconvenience to him. This is one of the most critical signs signs he loves you without saying it. If he is doing all the above things, he's head over heels for you! Do not let the fact that he hasn't said those 3 little words fool you. If you doubt his feelings, the above should help you. If you are in love with him too, maybe you should say it first. If he is in love too, chances are, he will say it back. After all, it's the twenty-first century, and you're allowed to be the first to say it like the strong individual you are.