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Stop Beating Yourself Up for a False Start and Do This Instead

Posted by Matthew, 23 Jan

Hey, How is 2019 going so far?

Perhaps already you’re asking yourself: “Am I going to achieve my goals for the year?” Am I going to lose weight? Get my finances organized? Will I take the necessary steps to improve my relationships (or start dating if I’m single?)

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Often, you see people get super excited on January 1st (OK, January 2nd, when they’re less hungover). They make New Year’s resolutions (Usually too many.) They set huge goals without thinking about how they’ll actually make them happen.

Then reality kicks in.

They realize change is tough. Change is scary. Change asks us to do things that at first feel uncomfortable, almost alien. It forces us to change or rethink our priorities to make room for new goals.

If you’ve had a shaky start to the year, and you’re already feeling intimidated about getting off track, it’s not too late. Stop the self-flagellation and get on the path to making this your proudest, most accomplished year ever.

Watch this now…

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.