What To Do When He Is Not Investing In You
Not investing in you?
Have you ever wondered what to say to a guy who is not investing in you? A guy who is not showing you enough interest?
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Let’s face it: We live in a flaky dating culture. People don’t text back. They cancel plans on the day. Or maybe they just don’t try hard enough in the early stages.
So… How should you respond when this happens?
The thing is, many people make a huge mistake in reaction to a man's complacency. In this week's video I discuss this mistake which you’ll see from a real woman’s comment.
So that you don’t fall into that trap, I’ll show you a powerful response that will get you five times more attention from the right guys... Try this out and lemme know if it turns your man around:
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