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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   cme23 says:
    Posted: 02 Jan 13

    At the end of the day its more about compatibility. I love black women especially dark skinned women but if there is no mental connection then the shade or race doesn't really matter. I've dated white women that I was physically attracted to but mentally we didn't click. So having the attraction for a different race is natural and normal but it doesn't stop at the physical.

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  2.   falino says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 12

    Interracial relationships are one of the best things in the eyes of our creator. Making us all look different is a trap to see if we can love each order seamlessly.

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  3.   aubrybrook says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 12

    Well my thoughts I live in Birmingham Alabama and there s a lot of white men who date black women and some don't come out and admit to it but in Alabama it's amazing to see the many white men that are with black women and wants to be some just don't know how to approach and I love to see interracial couples togather I my self was in a interracial relationship a while back and I think that it shout matter

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  4.   Jackie2013 says:
    Posted: 28 Dec 12

    Not every black woman is good,some are physically beautiful and not beautiful at heart or marriage material,one just have to careful while choosing.

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  5.   Honey_bee50 says:
    Posted: 15 Dec 12

    Be it white, black, blue, yellow, green, whatever..., all I want is to love and be loved

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  6.   cecile84 says:
    Posted: 10 Dec 12

    iv always been interested in dating white men just out of curiosity. I hear they are caring and commited to their women. unfortunately they are not many here in Kenya and being seen with one gives you the label of a gold digger. Anyone out there ready to try it out?

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  7.   ally2311 says:
    Posted: 18 Nov 12

    i LOVE white men, black men, all kinds of men..have dated white me before, always checking them out.. i am Jamaican.. and my family makes fun of me for dating white men...not that they are racist...but every one in my family is mixed...mostly black and Indian..( both my mom's parents fam are from India.....) my dad is a mixture of black, scottish and Indian.... but lately, all i see on interracial dating is white men ISO black women and most black guys ISO white women......... sup with that!? lol

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  8.   aliciaroz says:
    Posted: 09 Nov 12

    am a black and i too can go for a white if given the chance of choice

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    • lejear31 says:
      Posted: 13 Nov 12

      You dont need to be given the choice to date a whiteman its your choice..

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  9.   Zeren says:
    Posted: 08 Nov 12

    I hear y'all!! Now let the dating game begin. May the happiest couple black, white or mixed WIN!! I am for ALL.

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  10.   MyDaze says:
    Posted: 07 Nov 12

    I believe there is one answer to "why white men love the black woman" per say...Each person is their own individual with free will of feeling. I disagree that we love who treats us well, we love who our heart leaps for, sometimes there is no choice in the matter and hopefully the chance we take works out, if not we pick up that shattered heart, mend it and move on. I love black women because you light my soul, strengthen my will, and motivate my heart...

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  11.   cloe27 says:
    Posted: 05 Nov 12

    Love is such a strong word to us when referring to dating anyone regardless of race. I think people fall in love with whomever treats them well. If that happens to be a black woman then good on ya. Personally, I love who loves me back, unconditionally and I venture to say that all men feel the same way.

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  12.   Tente says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 12

    Love is love, we should stop thinking too much about skin color . I love WM and I have no apologies to make to anyone. You dont like it tough luck.

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    • xihoney12 says:
      Posted: 07 Nov 12

      I hear ya Tente!!!!! I feel the same way!!!!! And u know what if people would learn how to start respecting women, we wouldn't have to look elsewhere.....

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  13.   cotrice says:
    Posted: 31 Oct 12

    Ready for a change from the normal, everyday non-cultural men who find me too active and more than just intimidating. I know what I like, and want, and white men happen to be much more confident without the attitude to 'prove' than most men. I have found that unfortunately for me that I had been in a very black and white town in ATL for 20 years, now moved to the California Bay area, I am ready and open to the availability to allow the man of my dreams to finally find me. I pray I am in the right place. I believe, desire and expect him to be on his way to find me.

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  14.   cleopatra29 says:
    Posted: 30 Oct 12

    I have never dated a WM before but am interested in dating one. I am not totally against dating BM but would like a different approach in the romance department. BM seem to want a submissive woman but do not know how to treat and keep that kind of woman.

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    • xihoney12 says:
      Posted: 07 Nov 12

      Cleopatra, I hear ya! And I don't mean to stereotype, but it seems sometimes that black men can't stay committed to one woman!!!!! Idk! It's like,they want their cake and eat it too!!!! That shit gets old!!!

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      • Ruth116 says:
        Posted: 24 Aug 23

        Recently, a certain BM entertainer who was once married to another entertainer said that being married to only one woman and raising a family with her, was "Eurocentric" and offensive to him as a BM. As a high school senior, I heard the same thing from the teacher's aide in the Government class that seniors were required to take. That's nonsense! Marriage and family were ordained by God Himself and is universal. We marriage-minded BW would do better with WM, since more WM than BM desire marriage. Blessings on your quests, girlfriends! Then again, this article is more/less than ten years old and if the absences of your pictures are any indications, you must have found the loves of your lives.

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  15.   Ante59 says:
    Posted: 24 Oct 12

    I’m damn sick and tired of being looked at as a miscreant and lunatic because I had the privilege of preferring dark skinned African women. Black women are beautiful, black women are strong, black women are independent, and most importantly black women won’t put up with your shit. This places them in the highest regards in my own personal faux beauty pageant. I doesn't surprise me at all that e.g in USA divorce rate of white man/black women marriage is 44% lower that white marriages. The masters will continue to make black females scapegoats (wealth fare queens will always be a big winner!) and exclude them from being in the mainstream media. Slavery, Jim Crow, and the incarceration of millions of black males was just not sufficient to ‘get the job done’. Now there is a subversive war being waged against the American black female (and with some exceptions African European females too) to make them feel unattractive to themselves and others.

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  16.   brosafocate says:
    Posted: 18 Oct 12

    I am attracted to ww never had one though

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  17.   canadiangc says:
    Posted: 14 Oct 12

    Honestly? I have always found black females more erotic and excude more sexuality. Don't know where it came from, been like that since puberty. Still do after daing various races my entire life.

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    • Londoner007 says:
      Posted: 06 Nov 12

      I feel similar to you. Have had a lucky life with relationships from all races and many nationalities. From my experiences black women have always come top in all categories.

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  18.   garyduster72 says:
    Posted: 11 Oct 12

    I can only speak for myself. I have always found bw attractive. my first crush was a bg in the 5th grade. but yes most wm are not attracted to bw. they are truly limiting themselves in finding an amazing woman.

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    • Ante59 says:
      Posted: 24 Oct 12

      Even much more important - they seem to be much better partners than boring "welfare queen" propaganda is claiming. A 2008 study by Jenifer L. Bratter and Rosalind B. King conducted on behalf of the Education Resources Information Center examined whether crossing racial boundaries increased the risk of divorce. One result of that study: "In the case of Black wife/White husband marriages, divorce by the 10th year of marriage is 44% less likely than among White/White unions." Now who can claim that black woman can't be good partner and that these marriages are nothing but nightmare for both black woman and white man?

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      • Jackie2013 says:
        Posted: 28 Dec 12

        You are right and i think the reason to that is because black women are patient,nomatter what they go through in their marriages they always stay strong and ready to sacrifice their happiness in order to stay and raise their children and also fight for their marriages.

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  19.   meggy54 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 12

    wanna start a beautiful love story with my white guy, am here to find one, hope u come along.

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  20.   mstren says:
    Posted: 03 Oct 12

    I say follow your heart; be open to meeting the right person for you. I date across the board I love my brothers, white men and hispanic men. I like men who respect me, treat me well and connects with me. Look and feel with your heart.

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  21.   chila26 says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 12

    i think am just attracted to white guys for sure my dream has been getting married to a white man since i was young and am praying for my dream to come true i dont know how but God help me.

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  22.   angie432 says:
    Posted: 29 Sep 12

    Wow...so bitter. I've dated both white and blk guys, and I'm just more attracted to white guys:-)

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  23.   koketso says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 12

    i luv white guys,they are caring and they are not to personal when it comes to arelationship,i am just waitting for one

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  24.   Sonya1122 says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 12

    I have no problem with WW dating BM. For myself being a black female I find WM to be more focus on what they need and want out of life. I've been a nurse since age19,and just want my man be in a position we can financial make things work together. I feel black men I've ran across have no clue what it takes to be a father husband and provider. A great nymber not all BW have to many excuses and at age 40 still playing the blame game. WM can be more invested in a relationship and will see things through. I'm just posting my option.

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    • One1979 says:
      Posted: 29 Sep 12

      Dating whomever u find attractive mentally and physically is a good thing, But to say that a black man is no good at anything has been getting old for a very long time. To say that white men are better in relationships is far from the truth. Put it this way, when u don't have the whole world stressing u out 24/7/365, then of course things will be easier on you, including your intimate relationships. And the reason why a lot of black women are not married is because of people like Oprah Winfrey and Steve Harvey dishing out their lame dating advice. Here is a thought, what if every man, whether white, black, or brown, was on a equal level with one another. No money or status to fall back on. Basically no man would have a unfair advantage over another man because of other peoples' biases

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      • Reese says:
        Posted: 02 Oct 12

        I am not sure who you are responding too. I don't think most bw listen to Steve Harvey who has been divorced twice or Oprah who has never been married as I know. I don't know if what you are saying is true or not. But even is it is why should that fact effect bw dating pattern when we are trying to look for a good mate. Black men don't look at socialogical facters in determing who they should date or etc. We are all looking for a good man to is independent does outside facters affect that ofcourse. But it will never be fare for everyone, never has or never will. Even if there was no racism, would men tall in stature, buff, handsome, charming have an advantage over ones who weren't ofcourse they would.

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  25.   purplekisses says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 12

    I don't have a problem with ww dating bm. I feel like as long as they are happy who cares what everybody else has to say.

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  26.   Festo27 says:
    Posted: 14 Sep 12

    and what do you guys think about white women dating Black men?

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    • RoyceRaz says:
      Posted: 28 Sep 12

      I say follow your heart, its no one's buisness but your's and the others person your with. My sister was dating a Black Man the same time I was dating a Black Woman, we all had a blast together, but we definantly got some weird looks. It didn't matter to any of us, low class people will find any reason to judge, we should all be happy when two people find love. So I say, do your thing and don't sweat the haters, their just weak losers trying to destroy your happiness!!

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      • One1979 says:
        Posted: 29 Sep 12

        Not to many people would think that way. That is greatly needed. Especially down here in Tennessee.

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  27.   pushoverbig says:
    Posted: 09 Sep 12

    I name is Richard T.I'm 32 years old.I have Bro hair Hazel eyes.WT 170 HT 5.9.I live in Warren OHIO.I was dating this Black woman for two years .And She was not good to me.She lied to me and more,,I'm Looking for a woman that is looking for love and to start a family with me..I have 15 tattoo's.And I hope to find a woman that is ready to start living are lifes .I hope to find a woman that is in to the out door's and going out to eat .And just stay at home some times..But I live in Warren OHIO/If any women out their that is looking for a man like me say Hi maybe we can chat maybe more??????But I live with this white woman now ,I just live hear for now but if any sexy women looking fi=or a man like me hit me up.Or just come to warren OH and maybe we can meet??????

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    • AVG74 says:
      Posted: 17 Sep 12

      So I've dated white women who were no good & lied. You blame the person as an individual not the race!

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  28.   RayGer says:
    Posted: 07 Sep 12

    I have always found BW attractive, I've never seen one that didn't look at least 10 years younger than your true age! The majority of BW are very feminine and sweet! Not at all like the stereotypes we hear about! Hopefully one day I will meet my ebony goddess!

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      I love BMW. The design is perfect on some of the Black Magic Women. I would marry one right now.

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  29.   shaggy17 says:
    Posted: 05 Sep 12

    Well..... that certainly put me off oakbuff lmao uhm......*regains composure* What I believe is the reason is not only the more exotic and out of the ordinary from what we see in the mirror, its also the contrast between our skin and theirs that creates a form of attraction, well crap cant really say any more than that cuz I've never da... i dont like to say the word dated but whatever, a dark skinned woman, i dont like to say black either, it sounds racist to me.

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  30.   Oakbuff says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 12

    I heard from several white men that they love dating black women from accidents or experiment. When they finally tried a black woman, their juices were sweeter. I have heard that many times. I dated a white guy for the first time and I am now hooked. I guess it depends on the individual like in most cases.

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      Its only an accident for the WW, and for the WM if he fails to try the best thing in life. But its more addictive than all drugs on The Planet combined and times 10;). So be careful....

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      If I lived hundreds of years ago, I would be slave and she`ll be the Master.

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      Its too bad and so sad The Internet was born after me. I am aware what I have missed. Too tragic to even think about. Maybe I should yell at my father and call him names;)

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  31.   Prinuo says:
    Posted: 04 Sep 12

    @dan89may: Please speak for yourself. WM do love BM.........alot.

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    • RayGer says:
      Posted: 07 Sep 12

      I can't speak for all of us, but I'm a white guy and I do! I think a lot of black women are beautiful, sexy, sweet, warm, funny and desireable! I see myself marrying one someday!

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    • RoyceRaz says:
      Posted: 28 Sep 12

      ALOT....I find 99% of Black Women to be unbelievably Sexy, on the inside as well as the outside. Your heart will lead you to what you like, dont let anyone change your true feelings!

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      • xihoney12 says:
        Posted: 07 Nov 12

        Amen Royce!!!!! I hear ya:) And don't forget our curves and beautiful skin;)

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  32.   sarl34 says:
    Posted: 03 Sep 12

    am sure roccki you have a point there, l dated a white man way before l got married and l have regretted having not married him instead my blacke african husband has treated me like shit and l finally had to say no to the abuse and torment, That is why am here on this site maybe l can find true love with my white stallion..White guys rock they know how to treat a woman and definitely know how to love without reserve..wish l can be lucky...

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      Black, and you will never gå back. They are just more beautiful. Im crazy with "black" women.

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    • Maartin520 says:
      Posted: 27 Oct 12

      Black and White fits like Adam in Eve.

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    • Londoner007 says:
      Posted: 06 Nov 12

      Well done to you for having the courage to leave. Time and time again I hear from black girls and former black girlfriends about how badly they were treated by their black partners. Some heartbreaking stories from sweet and good-hearted women. I hope you find who you are looking for.

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  33.   roccki says:
    Posted: 02 Sep 12

    OMG!! Mr. dan89may you gave yourself away, we see you were rejected by a black woman so you are still bitter. Maybe you just didn't have what it takes, therefore it's easy to become bitter having nothing good or positive to say, and should not be expected. Now for the truth, white men love black women, and if it wasn't for racial prejudice with family, many if not most would live out their desire of being with a beautiful black woman. White men have always been secretly in love with black women......They love me!!!

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    • RayGer says:
      Posted: 07 Sep 12

      I'll bet I would too! Show me a picture baby! If you're half as cute as you sound, I'll bet your HOTTTT!

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    • Londoner007 says:
      Posted: 06 Nov 12

      It's true, I love you and I have never even seen your photo!

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    • xihoney12 says:
      Posted: 07 Nov 12

      I feel what Ur saying about the family prejudice and that's really messed up!!!! But honestly, Ur the one who's gonna be with the person at the end of the day. No disrespect to the parents. But if and that person love each other, who cares what the parents think. It's you who's marrying the person, not Ur parents! I'm sure the parents would have anyone dictating them if they wanted to marry someone out of their race.

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  34.   dan89may says:
    Posted: 01 Sep 12

    not all white guy like black women... just the truth..

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  35.   dan89may says:
    Posted: 01 Sep 12

    im sorry to say must white guys hate black women , black women treat white guys like trash and act like they are to good for has, or when they do date has... treat has like crap... so dont say white men love black women if not all white men say so the stats takeing in 2012 say on ly 3 0ut 100 white men would even date a black women... so who ever wrote they blog lied.... some black women are cute... but you all got alot things to loose about you all... likeing being, loud, rude, racist, and more.. list go on...

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    • Reese says:
      Posted: 06 Sep 12

      If you feel that way I am curious as to why you are on this site. And I read your profile saying you were looking for a black queen to spoil and laughed. Why if bw are going to treat you like crap? And we are loud, rude, racist and the list goes on..............Ofcourse not all white men like black women just like all black women don't like white men. I think you are on the wrong site if you are not interested in ir dating. But I know I would stay away from a white guy like you with your negativity and racism towards bw. You sound like you were hurt or rejected by bw.

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    • AVG74 says:
      Posted: 17 Sep 12

      Speak for yourself. I would date a BW over a WW anyday. You are just mad cause nobody wants your rascist ass. Why you cone to an interracial dating site and talk sh*t? You are very ignorant old man.

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      • xihoney12 says:
        Posted: 07 Nov 12

        It's sad how some people today are still sooo narrow minded.....Smh! I always say it's about that person making you happy regardless of the race. It shouldn't matter! And y'all know our chocolate skin and curves are sexy! You know what they say, once you go black you don't go back! Lol!

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        • larry111244 says:
          Posted: 10 Feb 13

          i love black women but waited to long to do what my heart told me to at age68 and in nc guess i'll HAVE TO SURFER IN MY MISTAKE

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    • nordicia says:
      Posted: 22 Dec 12

      Dan89, were you msrried to black woman or in a long term relationship with a black woman? Your post seems as though its coming from a place of hurt rather than how you truly feel about a black woman.

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  36.   Edah23 says:
    Posted: 01 Sep 12

    Im in kenya and i love white guys. . .by the way former USA ambassador to kenya michael ranneberger got swept off his feet by a black kenyan woman

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  37.   dan89may says:
    Posted: 01 Sep 12

    im a white guy im 24 i live around alot black people i naver ever see one black girl even check out a white guy or even smile are way.. why do black women hind likeing white guys and only show they like white guys on line?

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  38.   meggy54 says:
    Posted: 31 Aug 12

    i have nothing against my black brothers but am more attracted to white men more, i love their skin, their tender touch and they are so romantic too. I wish to start a beautiful love story with one white guy, a story that will inspire many to fight for what they feel against all odds, to inspire those who are against the interracial relationships that love is much more than skin colour, its colourless when it comes to what a person feels. Check me out if u wanna start a love story with me :)

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  39.   Canadianeh says:
    Posted: 29 Aug 12

    I have always been attracted to dark-skinned ladies. Of course some of the attraction could be classified as superficial, yet beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have my own reasons for my attraction, and above and beyond the physical interest , many of the beautiful ebony ladies with which I have encountered definitely carry themselves with poise, generally speaking have always been polite, and typically have strong family values. All highly respected attributes. Now the problem. The demographic with which I reside in is not exactly conducive to me having much of an opportunity to meet many ladies of the beauty with which I describe. The small Canadian city where I live is multi-cultural to a certain extent, yet, unfortunately, not to my desire.

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  40.   beesbum23 says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 12

    been through almost all the comments and am glad we have well informed and educated people here, its almost all been said.. i strongly encourage and support inter-racial dating... as for me the color contrast is a definite turn-on... i love my vanilla ice

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    • shaggy17 says:
      Posted: 26 Aug 12

      I have to agree lol the contrast. Buuuuuut, unlike most of the people here probably *and im saying this while feeling as if I'm 2 inches tall,* I'm here to actually find the one right person in both ways, aka im a virgin, shut up! lol anyway its inexplicable why I feel this way but well i didn't say it but its probably obvious that I'm attracted to dark skinned women n i have the feeling the one i'm supposed to meet is one. Anyway this is just in agreement n other people above who wanted to see someone else here XD

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  41.   romance0527 says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 12

    Love has no shame! So at the end all that matters.is the love that exist between the two people. But, one.thing ill say: if you looking for marriage after a year or so of dating consider a white guy cause black men have to many accomplishments that they want to fulfill before settling down! That is my only problem when it comes to black men but other than that love shouldn't be base on color or race!!

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  42.   Curious2013 says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 12

    I feel really sorry for Barbie. I suspect her story goes like this: she found out her white husband was cheating on her. With a black woman. Things went all crazy in their house as she begged to know why he did it and what's wrong with her... The clever guy decided to just make up some stuff just to make her feel better and less threatened. She then decided to come online to find out about interracial relationships, created a fake profile then proceeded to put all her insecurities ad shortcomings on public display by spewing all this trash. Poor thing. Anyway, regardless of race, people are people. Love really has no color. I like both black and white men and have met as many dogs in both races as I have wonderful guys.

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  43.   jrebs43 says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 12

    I would like to find me a black woman. I am very attracted to them and always have been.

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  44.   Scorpion133 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 12

    according to a recent background check into his birth right he is a relative of the first slave, a distant cousin to six previous presidents, and here was the kicker, he is akin to brad pitt and g.h. bush himself. some of you may know this already. my point is just be honest kind to another, and find happiness where ever you can. just do your part to make it last. our children are watching what we do and our ideas and actions are the prelude to the future. embrace raceism, deal with it, it is here until we cause it to go away.

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  45.   Scorpion133 says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 12

    first good evening to all. i have been on interracial dating sites for some time. i have read profiles of different people numerous times. i have seen that the desires of both wm, and wf are the same. ww love things about the bm much as i have read about wm saying about bw. and from all the retirec of both it all boils down to sexual attraction, and here we all live out our fantisies. lets not confuse love for lust. some where we all have been hurt by our own race, and because of this we maybe we harber a little antimosity toward others of the same race, who knows? we should just search ourselves for this truth, then and only then will we find true happiness within ourselves. let`s just be real about something. over 99 percent of us here are mixed with something or another, so we were interracial before we came here. speaking from experiance i am mixed with blk, wht, and what is labeled as indian. i love all my ethnicities even if one does something stupid, because that will never change who i am. since he became the commander in chief people have been trying to discredit him as a citizen of this country.

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  46.   Switiling says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 12

    According to me,i really dont know what pushes me to white men.Its something i cannot explain and thats why,i guess everyone having my condition is on this site,trying to find the answer.

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  47.   Switiling says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 12

    According to me,i really dont know what pushes me to white men.Its something i cannot explain and thats why,i guess everyone having my condition is on this site,trying to find the answer.True,some are looking for fantasy but for majority of us,its an universal call we have to answer.

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  48.   rjobby8148 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 12

    BerryCel would love to meet you

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  49.   rjobby8148 says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 12

    alot of very interesting comments Wouldn't it be nice to have a meet & greet I would love to meet some of you ladies.

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  50.   MsILovelife says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 12

    Why is it that the White man is really much like ant other man. They post what they want in a Black woman but truth be told they are not suer what they want. I fine this in the over fifty group of men. They have not found their selves yet. (news flash) You are not getting any younger. and we all know that it does not work as it did when you were sixteen. Just be real about what you think you want. If you really did want an oldar Black Lady youy would at least go out on a date.

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